Why Freedom, and Safety is most important for Special Needs Kids

freedom and safety for for Special Needs Kids

It’s easy to get caught up in the day-to-day challenges of caring for a special needs child. I know it can be challenging, but make sure you take time out of your schedule to celebrate the little victories too!

Not only will they help build self-esteem in your child, but they will also help them feel more included in their community.


Your child’s fears and anxieties can be very real.

Your child’s fears and anxieties can be very real. It is not uncommon for children with special needs to have a fear of being left alone or abandoned.

These fears are not just difficult; they are actually very real and should be respected as such.

Your child may be crying out of fear, but you may not understand why they feel this way because it doesn’t make sense to you.

You may be trying to comfort them by saying things like “it will be okay” or “you don’t need my help right now” but those things won’t necessarily help in the long term because what your child needs most at the moment is reassurance that everything will be okay again soon—not just now but also tomorrow and next week too!

If your child is afraid of going outside then try sitting down together as a family friend rather than leaving him/her alone outside all day long (which could happen).

If he/she wants more time inside then maybe try taking him/her out for walks around the block instead.

This might work better than forcing him/her into something else if she feels anxious about leaving home altogether because she knows how important it was before…


The anxiety they feel may not make sense to you.

The anxiety they feel may not make sense to you. They may be afraid of things that you think are completely harmless, or even beneficial for them.

The simple fact that their parents are taking care of them and providing them with the care they need, can cause fear when it comes to making decisions on their behalf.

This can lead to frustration in both parents and children alike who want what is best for their loved ones but don’t know how much help they need or what will work best for them individually.


You have to have patience and understanding.

  • You have to be patient with your child.
  • You have to be patient with yourself.
  • You have to be patient with other adults, and children.
  • You have to be patient with the situation, or else you’ll burn out quickly and become bitter or angry about things that aren’t happening fast enough for you (and maybe even blame someone).


Asking your child what they need is important.

It’s also helpful to listen carefully and follow through on what you promise to do, giving them choices and options.

Be patient with yourself and others when dealing with a special needs child. Keep it positive, stay calm and explain things clearly!


You should always reinforce your kids

You should always reinforce your kids if they are trying to communicate how they feel, no matter how short the conversation is.

Even if you don’t understand what they’re trying to say, it’s important that you try to show them that you’re listening and paying attention.

For example, when a child wants something from us (like an extra hug or snack), it’s okay for us not always respond right away because sometimes there might be other things happening in our lives that we can’t just drop everything for them right away.

Instead of telling him “no” immediately after he asks for something (which would probably make him feel rejected), try saying: “I’m sorry but I have my hands full at the moment.” This way he knows we heard his request but are also busy with other things too!

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Try to keep up a routine

It’s important to keep a routine, but be flexible when your kids don’t want to do something at the exact same time every day.

Routines are great because they help children feel safe and secure in their environment. If your child has autism or other special needs, they may have difficulty with routines or schedules because they don’t know what will happen next.

If you can set up an alternative schedule that works for them (for example, making sure your son gets enough sleep), then you should try it!

If there’s an emergency or something comes up unexpectedly—like if you’re out of town for work—you’ll need to make changes in order for your child not only to survive but also to enjoy their life without feeling like he/she is being punished because everything changed abruptly without warning from either parent(s).


Celebrate the little victories because they are big victories for your child.

What’s a little victory? It’s getting dressed on your own. Or it could be learning to feed yourself in the morning, or even going to the bathroom on your own.

These are all small things that can make a big difference for special needs kids.

It’s important for parents who have children with special needs to celebrate these little victories because they will help them feel more confident and secure in their lives.

Celebrating every step along the way is what we need from our parents and family members when raising our kids with disabilities or mental health issues; it helps us remember that although each day isn’t always perfect, there are still things we need to do together as a family unit because no one person can do all of this alone!


Make sure you have time for yourself and time with other adults.

Make sure you have time for yourself and time with other adults. Allow yourself some “me” time every day. Practice self-care as often as you can or whenever you feel stressed.

Especially during quarantine, self-care is an important thing to try to maintain and it’s okay if it doesn’t always happen!


Taking care of your children can be hard

Taking care of yourself can be hard, especially when you’re caring for children who have special needs. But it’s important that we remember the importance of taking care of ourselves too!

Self-care is something that everyone should do every day. Whether you do it in the morning or at night before bed, self-care isn’t just something that happens once a week or once a month—it’s something that can be practiced every single day!

Self-care means taking time out of your busy schedule to relax, enjoy nature and spend time with friends & family members who make you smile.

Self-care is also important if you are responsible for taking care of someone else’s child because they need to know how much love there is behind all this work.



If you are caring for a child who has special needs and anxiety, remember that it is okay to ask for help.

The family members around you will want to help, but don’t forget about yourself! It may be hard at first, but eventually, you will feel better knowing there are people in your life who care about how you feel as well.